L2-P3(Introduction to Toastmasters Mentoring)......Dream and Happiness

2019.3.04(Mon.)

Dream and Happiness

 

Today's my speech started from two tiny events in my daily life.

 

Incident No. one

 

A few months ago I went a barbershop.

I do go to a luxurious hairshop as well but sometime I feel like it is no use of it. worthless.

so from time to time go to the cheapest barbershop in Korea, that is Blue Club.

The owner of the blue club was all her alone with woeful face When I got in there.

Even when she first saw me she did Never seem happy or glad at all. I wondered why No cumstomer barbershop owner did not glad to see a cusmomer????

anyway I sat down and briefly said to her with all my smile "short hair cut, please Mam'a"

She was mumbled like this....."hew~ what I am doing here with 8K hair cutting......." and I heard of it clearly

so I asked her to amused her.

so Mam'a you must have been a very talented hair dresser and must have had a big hair sallon or something?

then She made a rambling speech about How big hair sallon she had before and How many  beauty artiests she hired....

When She talked about her past her face was full of happy but all of sudden when she changed her voie tone to current status, then her voice and face all turn to dark and blue.....and she added...I still have a  dream to restore the glory of the past someday.........with woeful face....

 

Event No two.

a few weeks ago I went to Jeju island for a short business trip.

the decison for the business trip made on that day and I was full hurry and rush to Ulsan airport to catch the Air-Busan air plane which are only 2 times a day

one in AM and one in PM.

Somehow, I catched the air plane luckly and sat down my seat with sigh then I noticed that there were one more person who sighed like I did right before

"~~~ Huew~" it was the cabin crew, beautiful and young lady in the splendid uniform. the young  stewardess had very sad face, even more like pathetic.

but I found out another cabin crew with full of smile and replyed all passengers who was looking for their seats.

I quickly tryed to find what was difference between two cabin crews?

first ting hit me was, Age.....pathetic and sad crew was young and ever happy crew was in her middle age.....

 

Yes. Maybe I was totally wrong, Not only the age could make that much emotioanl chage,

Maybe each stewaredess had any kinds of matters or circumstance.

But the gloomy face of the young and beautiful lady overlaped the face of the blue club owner who has the dream of big hair sallon

I did not ask the young crew that why you have a wrong face... I could not....in the plane.....

But what If because she has a dream of becomming the major airline cabin crew like Korean air, Asiana or Emirate, JAL

These dream makes the young lady sad and unhappy? is it good dream or bad dream?

 

What if the happy middle age crew was happy due to she had been there in  major airline company and she does not have any dream to change her current caree then She is bad? because she does not have a dream? or

coudl I say it is good for her not to have a dream because she is happy now?

 

If you are not happy due to your dream, then is it good or bad?

if you dream crush you down and make you unhappy then is it good?

If you are happy with current status without any dream then is it good for you? you could say?

 

Where is the best place between Dream and Happiness?

 

a few weeks ago, Raphael said in his speech that try to find your dream, you remember?

then What will you do with your dream?

 

struggling under your dream? not happy with your today?

or happy without any dream?

 

I am asking you one more time

Where is the best palce between Dream and Happiness? the answer is Ballence!!

 

Feet on the earth, try to find happiness now

Eye on the sky, do not give up your dream

 

Persuade your Dream with happiness